This is a magic type. If you want to do private chat with some of your friend. But you dont want to start the conversation, so try this trick. Go to your friend private chat window and type /howl your_friends_id Then your friend will get an empty message. then your friend will get a private chat alert with no message in it. Then he will start talking with you. Try this trick with your mig33 buddies.. Keep messaging... Take care